These days wide number of relationships and marriages have taken a dissimilar turn because both parties involved have different ideologies.
Why do people enter into relationships, specifically, dating/marriages?
Is dating/marriage a business or a get rich business?
What is the main focus of dating or marriage?
What are the responsibilities for women and men in a relationship?
Should sé’x be the basis for a relationship?
Let’s stick to dating for the sake of our discussion, marriage is seen as a different ball game altogether.
In a post sighted on Facebook by Kingsmotiongh.com, a lady indicated that it’s not fair for ladies to ask their boyfriends for money for their hair, nails, clothes, chop money, rent, amongst other basic things.
According to her, ladies who genuinely love their boyfriends build a future rather than draining them.
Again, ladies spend on men they love and do not request basic things expected of them from men.
She believes that a man can willingly buy gifts for his girlfriend but it shouldn’t be an obligation as far as the relationship is concerned.
She wrote and I quote:
“It’s our responsibility as ladies to buy our basic needs, our men shouldn’t be our bank if our parents couldn’t build us. It’s fine when your boyfriend surprises you with gifts but it’s not their responsibility since you guys are not married. Even if you are fortunate and he marries you don’t leave all the responsibilities on him!”